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Going to end my relationship? I think...

Advice is appreciated

Me and my partner have been together for a couple of years. They havent done anything wrong particularly i just dont know about our relationship anymore. Ive been thinking about breaking up for a few months now but im not sure how to do it. I honestly feel like a horrible person for this because they havent done anything to deserve it i think im just loosing feelings and i dont know why. Maybe its jusg getting older. But honestly a part of me cant leave. I dont think I'd be able to break up with them and be okay. I think one of the main reasons for this is im poly and theyre very against that. Ive always known im poly but i guess i never told them cause i wanted to make us work. I would never want to break their boundaries and so obviously im only with them at the moment. and I dont know part of me feels so evil for wanting to leave and like i should just stay and maybe it'll get better. But ive been having feelings for a few of my friends for a whilr now and im trying so hard to ignore it and believe they will pass but i dont know. I just feel like we're not right for eachother but we tried too hard to make it work to give up now.

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Take my advice with a grain of salt, but I feel like the best thing to do right now is to show your hand and tell them clearly how you feel about this, and discuss together what you want to do moving forward. Wishing you the best > <