My rizz is IN HELL 😭😭 I'm genuinely so naive cuz I once matched pfps with a guy and really thought we're just friends (⁠〒⁠﹏⁠〒⁠) And uh if I'm being honest my flirting or showing love is that I hate. Like, if I like a person kinda romantically I'll try to give them as many names as possible and make jabs, but not any offensive ones, just something shallow.

I usually just use pet names and such
the easiest way for me is to act like characters I know that are considered pretty smooth.. just in any scenario "what would ... say" and then just go for it lol
or quite literally steal(reference) video game dialogue.
kinda pathetic. ik.
-_-

I don't understand flirting either, I fear ToT... my friends say I don't pick up on a lot of those kind of cues well
I haven't had many crushes, but I noticed I tend to be playfully hateful tbh (of course as long as I know they're comfortable with that + do it back), especially over text. Though whenever I'm around them irl, I feel shy and embarrassed :(

I used to be on a relationship with a man and i knew subtle flirting wouldn't get to him because MEN so i went into his dm and bluntly asked if i could court him
we started dating 2 week later

I don't have any romantic experiences as an adult, so I feel like I'd be terrible at flirting and stuff like that.

I honestly tried flirting and it’s not my thing..
like i’m used to people making a move on me and now i’m starting to think i should start taking notes on flirting tactics, cause i tried flirting two times:
first was a girl, i tried to make it a bit obvious and she took it as a joke at first before i actually confessed and it didn’t go well 3_3
and then i tried with a guy, but all i did was stumble over my words and he misunderstood it 😭😭
let’s just say i think im not made to flirt

Whenever I flirt with my friends it works too well and they end up liking me. (not complaining tho, if it works it works?)
but when its with someone I'm interested in, it just doesn't work. :(
I guess it depends on if the interest is mutual between the person you're flirting with. :/

I don't understand how flirt either because usually their flirting is just, being a decent person-

I got a girl look at me mad because i warned her boyfriend his water bottle had fallen thinking i was flirting with him.
Same when i just answered the "hi" a classmate that greeted me :'v

The funniest one tho was once when i was buying shirts, there was this promo that you could get a pin for free if you bought 2 of them, but even after browsing i only liked one of them so no pin :(.
But then the clerk guy allowed me to take the pin for free wile only buying one shirt. I was like "Score, nice person!"
But then later my aunt was super duper mad about how he was clearly flirting with me and how dare he-

Maybe i'm too aroace for this world-