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I like to think im an extrovert and for me some people just have an aura around them that scares me off. I talk to strangers, homeless people, everyone whos wiling to talk usually but some people scare me off and they arent even intimidating. Usually its someone really nice and cool but for some reason im scared away lol. Another issue i have is that since I talk to so many strangers, getting unwanted conversations happens somtimes.
Oo interesting. Maybe those ppl j have aura lmaoo and u subconsciously feel self-conscious around em?
Idk why but I cant respond to ori's reply so ill do it like this.

Yes the have aura in a way lol. Cool people and really nice people scare me away i think because they're so cool and nice that I dont want to mess up and not want them to dislike me so I distance myself to avoid such fate
People forget that extroverts can be shy too. I for one never really formed a lot of friendships as a little kid and was kind of aloof and shy. I was always left out and super anxious. I didn't really feel like I was a part of society really - I was always left out; noone wanted to talk to me. But the thing was that I thought that I couldn't really do social stuff, and people didn't want to talk to me, so I thought that I didn't want to talk to people. If you don't think you can do something, it's easy to simply not desire it. I did actually want friends, but I didn't go for it. That was until I got older and I finally got my first group of friends and learned how to interact socially and realized I really do love talking to people all the time. It's funny that people think extroverts are super good at social interactions and have a ton of friends - that is not necessarily true, we just usually get more practice. I know for a fact that people get weirded out by me just being myself sometimes, and I feel social anxiety all the time. The thing is you high-key just need to lose all your shame I guess lol.
Oo thx for ur input!
I love harassing introverts to be friends w me I worry on if I come off pushy or awkward all the time tho