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guy i have a new would you rather ok get ready
would you rather be deeply loved by someone who could never understand you
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be completely understood by someone who can never love you
one person would choose you every single day theyd care about you theyd stay but there will always be parts of you they will never really understand ,the other person would get you completely your thoughts your fears the certain things you just dont know how to explain to people however theyd never really feel the same about you
one gives you love without understanding the other gives you understanding without love
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Addiii's profile pictureAddiii
The second one! (My choice might be biased since I'm on the aro/ace spectrum), to be able to interact with someone who completely understands me would be a dream!! I feel like I could have such good conversations without the need for a relationship or the pressure of needing to really reciprocate anything.
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smilez's profile picturesmilez
literally just about to say this ToT I FEEL THE SAME WAY
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Cupcake :3's profile pictureCupcake :3
I think the second one is a no brainer because even though the love wouldn't be inherently romantic, there is definitely still love at its core, because to be loved is to be known. To be known and understood by someone so deeply, there has to be love somewhere, whether it be romantic or platonic. It would basically just be having a super duper best friend! I've literally had both relationships like that. A big contributing factor for why i left my ex was that although i knew he loved me, he simply didn't know me, and he was never curious enough to know the sides of me nobody else knew. And i simply couldn't live with that, as someone who has such a strong desire to be known and understood. But i was able to have that with my best friend, who knows and understands everything about me with such ease, that i have yet to find in a romantic relationship. That's just the beauty of platonic love
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smilez's profile picturesmilez
If you mean love in the romantic sense, option 2 is honestly the best for me. also cuz I'm aroace
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ayu's profile pictureayu
superhell vs normal hell :p...

so tbh I will go with the same option, it doesn't matter if they romantically like me, i would REALLY love a person who understands me especially these days... (but like obv if they dont like me, I wont be with them) also if they understand me as a person, that's really enough for me.
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