Disinterest for sure. If someone hates me, the chances of them going out of their way to hurt me are much higher. I'd rather not be talked about behind my back, even if that means not being talked about at all.

I personally wouldnt really care, because why would I let the opinion of someone that dont really matter have any effect on me? Bc just like we dont care about EVERYONE and form opinions about them, not everyone will care enough to form opinions about us and thats totally fine!

U guys r making valid points,,

For me I have a hard time specifically when it’s someone like a friend that I like but they j seem uninterested in me 😭 it just sucks to not be reciprocated

I think I'd rather someone be disinterested in me... If someone hates me, then they're probably putting a lot of energy towards that hatred because it takes so much to hate over just have a general dislike. I don't want them to waste their energy, and I definitely do NOT need that bad energy coming back at me!

truly idgaf about either but someone hating on me AND actively trying to make my life worse is definitely NOT what I would rather have LOL

Depends on the person. I kinda lean towards hate tbh