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scrolling through my feed trying to interact with people but im realizing i dont really know how to do that ?? i type out a comment and it just feels weird. like im saying something odd or something that just doesnt make sense. damn. i really need to get out of the house and socialise myself, man. the same thing happens irl, where it feels like everything im saying makes zero sense so ill just shut up. i think i babble a lot of nonsense. it often feels like my mouth is full of water or something and itll flood my throat and fuck up my words even when i cant really speak with it, just existing and trying to make a notion of something is weird. feels like drowning. like right now, does any of this make much sense? if any at all?
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I get everything you've said socializing is such a scary thing, but everyone I've met so far on this site have been nothing but kind so that hopefully reassures you. My little advice is to try and not overthink it because honestly 9 times out of 10 people wont care or think negatively of what you say as long as your not mean or anything. And if they do well who cares about them!!!
honestly i feel you on that, when i got on this site i didn’t know if i was going to be able to talk to anyone inside here because of my age or how i comment, but what i have noticed so far is that everyone here is really accepting and also not judgmental! but take as much time you need to gain confidence to socialize cause i also dont talk much in person cause high school is a bit more worse than it is inside here, i believe in you and wish you the best!!٩(ˊᗜˋ )و
Making the first step into interacting with people can be very hard and stressing because you have no idea how everyone will react, maybe they'll make fun of you, maybe people will ignore you
But I like the way that even with your anxiety, you still managed to write both a post and blog, I think that's lovely you made the first steps to fight your anxiety and we support you in this way, whether it's in the internet or real life
I second what Spiffy said, we aren't judgemental at all here! Everyone here is weird but it's the good kind of weird
awhh im so sorry you feel that way,, i've been so scared to go out and socialize but i'm craving it like everyday (╥ _ ╥) and i know i need to start but i keep putting it off bc im so scared. i dont even know how to start conversations with people,,, if you ever need anybody to practice on you can always dm me 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯. and everything you said does make sense :'))) we are here for uuu
i think that way too sometimes >_< what helps me is to try to think about it from the other side. when people comment on my posts, i never think they are odd or judge them, if anything, im happy they read what i wrote and wanted to respond. irl is another thing it is much more difficult lol but at least online i can choose my words more carefully...