HELLO BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE!!! I am so sorry for everyone who has been replying to my posts and messaging me!!!
adult life is really lifing as some of you know im going through a hard time right now but i promise im working hard on it thats why ive been gone.
god ive missed you all so much and i promise ill do my best to get through the notifs today (got nearly 100) and i promise ill try get through the messages too xoxox
im sorry im like super vague about whats happening in my life but i want my page to be very positive because i belive that we see enough negative crap on the internet everyday, but i understand thats not really realistic to a real human beings life.
life is full of ups and downs and sometimes things aint great, that is true, however i will still try and keep a positive vibe here the best i can xoxox
in other news
ive been cleaning alot lately, ive really felt like taking back my space, i think its important to have a clean space to have a clear mind... however its kinda tricky because i have adhd and disabilities that make that tricky.
❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡ QUESTION OF THE DAYY! ♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤
How have you been kind to yourself this week, and if you haven't been kind to yourself yet then tell me what you can do to be kind with yourself today, tomorrow or by the end of the week (i really want you to follow through with it too its important to be kind to yourself)
bonus question: do you like how I'm structuring this post? is it easier to read?
To answer the question myself i have been giving myself nice relaxing baths and letting myself have my fav snacks, just letting myself rest with no expectations of myself and trying to keep up with my self care (because i tend to neglect that when im going through a hard time)
hope you all have a beautiful day and again im really sorry for being gone feel free to spam my messages if you want me to reply to something you have said xoxox
adult life is really lifing as some of you know im going through a hard time right now but i promise im working hard on it thats why ive been gone.
god ive missed you all so much and i promise ill do my best to get through the notifs today (got nearly 100) and i promise ill try get through the messages too xoxox
im sorry im like super vague about whats happening in my life but i want my page to be very positive because i belive that we see enough negative crap on the internet everyday, but i understand thats not really realistic to a real human beings life.
life is full of ups and downs and sometimes things aint great, that is true, however i will still try and keep a positive vibe here the best i can xoxox
in other news
ive been cleaning alot lately, ive really felt like taking back my space, i think its important to have a clean space to have a clear mind... however its kinda tricky because i have adhd and disabilities that make that tricky.
❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡ QUESTION OF THE DAYY! ♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤♡❤
How have you been kind to yourself this week, and if you haven't been kind to yourself yet then tell me what you can do to be kind with yourself today, tomorrow or by the end of the week (i really want you to follow through with it too its important to be kind to yourself)
bonus question: do you like how I'm structuring this post? is it easier to read?
To answer the question myself i have been giving myself nice relaxing baths and letting myself have my fav snacks, just letting myself rest with no expectations of myself and trying to keep up with my self care (because i tend to neglect that when im going through a hard time)
hope you all have a beautiful day and again im really sorry for being gone feel free to spam my messages if you want me to reply to something you have said xoxox
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To answer your question yes and no. Been trying to take care of myself, but I also feel like I have been rotting away in my apartment. Complicated but I'm trying to keep myself more busy.
Have a wonderful day
i dont want you to bed rott but listen sometimes it happens, being kind to yourself isnt what you do its what you say. maybe forgive yourself for bedrotting sometimes. treat yourself like your own best friend.
now if my bff was bed rotting id say to them "okay hunny we have bed rotted for a while now and thats okay but what can we do thats small and easy that can get us slowly getting there again?
a drink of cold water? some stretches lying down? maybe if you feel like you can get up a little bit splashing your face with water?
just little things and dont get upset if you cant do something, i always say "doing something badly is better than not doing it at all"
cant brush your hair? then just try run ur fingers through a little, cant brush your teeth? mouthwash is okay for now, cant shower? wet wipes and deodorant it is.
dont be upset at yourself for bed rotting, forgive yourself, and do small things to get yourself there.
thats being kind
True, I've been trying to clean my room lately and I can tell it's had a positive effect on my morale. It can be hard to do consistently tho ;-;
To answer the question, I'm trying to take more cold showers often since I discovered that it really helped me personally. And I also like to set reminders to drink more water since I tend to forget about that a lot lol. DON'T FORGET TO DRINK WATER GUYS!!
I've noticed that keeping a small consistent routine despite whatever's going on in life really helps reassure me that it's gonna be a day like any other, that it's gonna be fine in the end.
Wishing you a wonderful day ahead! (/^▽^)/
example: i hate my body ~ i have a body... it has my organs and keeps me alive good job body~ then you can work on saying, well i like my hips and i think my belly is cute exet.
its so much easier to state facts and accept that you are there and theres a reason.
keep up the good work hunny
As for the question, I really don't know how to answer it. I'd like to think I've been kind to myself this week. I'm working on a new song for myself, which could be an example.
i like how you formatted the post!! i appreciate how much you write and this makes it easier to read
as for your question, it’s been a little hard to be kind since i’ve been feeling sick the past few days >_< but tomorrow i have off of work, so i think ill watch a comforting movie
also sorry to hear you are not feeling well, get well soon xoxox
good choice to watch a movie sometimes all we need is to watch a comfort film xoxox