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Dating apps outside of big cities are desolate wastelands filled with hundreds of the dullest most cookie-cutter straight white men you've ever met. Yeah tell me more about how you like football and F1 and house music you bowl of oatmeal.
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My friends have been trying to get me on the apps for years and I finally caved last night but its just 60 clones of the exact same man I just can't do it
Also neurotypical men that have no clue what autism is saying they love girls who are "slightly autistic" or "have a touch of the tism" are in for a shock when I can't touch their bedsheets or eat wet food instead of just saying "omg I love dinosaurs :3 "
it's rough out here but I'm no quitter !
they're all just so god damn bland and unappealing
They are, even in a larger city there's a lot of them, however as amab I don't have to face the harassment, I've only heard horror stories about it. It's horrible how normalized such sexism and entitlement is
iโ€™ve never downloaded it myself but iโ€™ve watched as my friends scrolled why is every man there so awful ๐Ÿ˜ญ never funny, choose the worst pictures, or giving nothing to work off of
The amount of grown ass men who are just fully incapable of describing themselves or their interests is actually concerning
This and people who say "I love you" after the first few hours of conversation.
I've not had that happen so far but if that's what's in store for me then maybe I'm not cut out for this lifestyle
if they werent dull they wouldnt be on a dating app ๐Ÿ’”
I'm not ready to admit that because it means I'm no better than them
Nah but fr even bowl of oatmeal is a generous description ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Ah dating apps. I don't think I will ever try it. I haven't dared touch that one gay dating app (cough cough rhymes with binder) because I've seen my friend's phone explode of notification...also just...a vile cesspool. Best of luck though!
I shiver in horror to imagine straight dating apps... the fish pictures... oh no... I'm so sorry you had to endure that... LOL
unfortunately, this applies to queer dating apps too to a certain degree. the main issue is being stuck in a small town.
I got the same problem irl unfortunately ;-;
it's so over for us lol this applies to making new friends as well. it feels isolating. personally, it makes me feel more pressured to move to a big city except I'm broke and getting a job in big cities feels impossible in this hellish job market