random question, but do you think casual physical affection or showing affection at all between friends (both same and opposite / diff genders) should d be normalized??
i hate that whenever i try to show someone i care, someone else will see and assume something romantic is going on between us like NOOO! i just have a lot of love to give huhuu.. anyways what r yallβs thought?? hmmm..
i hate that whenever i try to show someone i care, someone else will see and assume something romantic is going on between us like NOOO! i just have a lot of love to give huhuu.. anyways what r yallβs thought?? hmmm..

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I could understand if two friends were kissing on the lips or something, but even then, each to their own.
Personally, I love hugging my loved ones. I wish I could cuddle with people without it having such annoying strings attached! Even figuring out how to bring up the idea feels super awkward.
I think we've become terribly afraid of tenderness. Heaven forbid two friends adore one another openly without everyone immediately trying to arrange a wedding. It's ridiculous, really.
Love has never belonged exclusively to romance. There is something rather beautiful about being able to love your friends deeply and without embarrassment. If you have a lot of love to give, darling, I see no reason you should make yourself smaller simply because other people insist on putting everything into little romantic boxes.
So yes. Hug your friends! Tell them you love them! Be affectionate! Let people be loved without interrogating what kind of love it is
also normalize friends kissing
I think being affectionate shld be normalized, cuz 1 ppl who dont know how to express themselves with words can use physical affection, 2 it can show how compassionate someone is and 3 it's too normalized as 'romantic'
to be fair, love isn't just one classified thing, it isn;t just romantic love, it can be platonic, familial, etc, etc.
speaking from experience i got looked at weirdly by the friend who i held hands with cuz i was scared as a kid.. like dawg ...