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I did some journalling today to reflect on the changes I wanted to see in my life 2 years ago. There's been some gains and losses but I think I'm doing better than I ever was in my whole life. I hope to make even better choices moving forward and give myself grace.
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Isn’t it crazy that your favorite characters are technically OCs? Like every character from ur favorite media is someone’s OC!

Paintings from the renaissance is technically fan art.

Even if your OCs aren’t popular, if they mean something to you, then I think that’s pretty cool.
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hi everyone! today i wanna recommend you a track from the album "A Sort of Sound Track for U.F.O" by Sadesper Record: "SIESTA". It's a rock-shoegaze-electronic track from 2004, it’s not very well known but give it a listen if you’d like (i'll leave the youtube link here) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wldxNOGHZh8
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if you're into internet horror / obscure videos / lost media, try searching "mvi_XXXX" or "img_XXXX" on youtube with 4 random numbers (e.g. "mvi_3028"). It will show you dozens of videos with very few views, typically from 10+ years ago. if you get lucky you might come across something strange that hasn't been seen yet.
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Gomiinola in The Lounge

I've always wanted to make SMP in Minecraft with friends, but my friends don't play Minecraft anymore, I've tried too joining servers, but I always spawn far away from everyone help

The only good thing that happened to me today was when I played Bedwars with a new person, They were very good playing, although we always lost because I'm a bit slow to react (= o =)
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guy i was supposed to be going on a date with has had to suddenly move back home so i guess that's not happening :^[ but I'm committed to trying to make long-distance work because i do like him a lot
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Ok I gotta lock in and make my own code today because butchering codes is annoying (Ill still take some parts of pre existing code but I'm gonna do my best to make something myself)

If anyone has any tips I'd appreciate them
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Anyone ever heard of the Karpman Drama Triangle? To put it very briefly, it's a model of interaction among three people or parties that forms a triangle, regardless of whether it's intentional or not. In this triangle, there are three roles: the Victim, the Rescuer and the Persecutor.

Victim: plays helpless and blameless, inviting others to fix their issues while refusing to take responsibility, uses the Persecutor's behavior to justify helplessness ("Poor me")

Rescuer: intervenes constantly and enables the Victim, has a desire to feel needed. This can lead to codependency while they ignore their own needs ("Let me help you")

Persecutor: criticizes, blames and controls others especially towards the Victim, may weaponize their anger or pain to have power over others ("It's all your fault")

This forms a very manipulative, unhealthy dynamic and creates emotional confusion that eventually destroys relationships if left unresolved even if it's subtle. What is also REALLY interesting is how roles can continuosly shift. For example, the Victim may suddenly switch roles with the Prosecutor and vice versa, often unconsciously. These roles can continue to shift as resentment grows.

I think it's very interesting to see how common this happens in our daily lives at varying levels of intensity.

I'm sure there are sources that can explain this even better so I recommend reading about it yourself for a deeper understanding.

Image from: https://workshopbank.com/karpman-drama-triangle-workshop
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"grief tastes like your name,
my flesh would rot off my bones for you,
the places our skin meets sizzle and burn,
ill crawl out of the grave i begged to be put in
just to see you again"

idk i wrote this because i think the ideas of rotting/decomposing is a really cool way to express the fact that one is dead but still clinging on to the living. reading this from the perspective of the other person, its prolly rlly gross LMFAOOO but i guess thats the point?
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I just watched Lesbian Space Princess last night, it's probably not up to my taste because i don't feel much from it, the characters are a bit of a 50/50 so are the designs (except Blade imo, i genuiely love her design), the plot was kinda bum, and the movie itself is genuiely so forgetable. Though i can see some people enjoying it.
Either way, how do you all feel about the movie so far?
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Started my first week of sophomore year, I had a professor no show two classes in a row.. had the head of the department teach my class today instead. Hopefully I don’t need to drop my class (as far as ik it’s secured I think even if the prof left, I think??) Anywaysss how’s everyone’s college week gone so far if u have already started?
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